In my recent journey as a Rabbi Emeritus, I have been blessed with the guidance and support of my Rabbinical Assistant, Debra Gudema. Her unwavering dedication to kindness, forgiveness, and compassion has been a source of strength and inspiration to my work and purpose as a Rabbi.
Debra’s ability to see light even in the hardest moments is nothing short of inspiring. While I know she has learned much in our talks, I have equally learned the value of hope from her life experiences and perspectives.
Whether through our insightful writings and articles or our heartfelt conversations and Torah talks, she has a unique way of reminding me that hope is not just a distant dream but a tangible force we can cultivate within ourselves and our communities.
There have been moments when the weight of life’s challenges felt overwhelming, and together, Debra and I found writing and classical music as inspiration to thrive.
Through her leadership in her various roles to her commitment to family and her doctoral degree, she not only spreads messages of kindness and compassion but has also embodied them in every aspect of her journey. Debra often says I helped her discover a new strength within herself, but she, in turn, has shown me how to look for the light in life’s fragile moments. Her commitment to these values has shown me that hope is alive and well, nurtured by every act of goodness, no matter how small.
Debra’s influence has been a constant reminder that if we continue to uplift each other and lead with organic kindness, hope will always find its way back into our hearts.
I am deeply grateful for the meaningful impact Debra has had on my life. From encouraging me to launch both a temple and personal blog to share my writings and sermons, to the special bond we have built through our shared love of Torah, her presence has been a true gift. I know she will continue to uplift and inspire every community she embraces.
Debra, thank you for your constant care and support over the years. I truly value the connection we share and the meaningful relationship we have created.
With deep appreciation for the past and hopeful anticipation for what lies ahead, I am honored to welcome the exceptionally gifted Dr. Sophia Stone as my new Rabbinical Assistant. Dr. Stone is an esteemed temple member, a dedicated community leader and college professor who shares the joy of faith, writing, and philosophy. Building upon the strong foundation laid by Debra, Dr. Stone will help carry forward my words, teachings, and meaningful connections with our cherished temple community and my dear friends.
Rabbi Merle E. Singer | Words with Merle 