Who Am I, you may ask? I am a father, a husband, a son, a brother, a nephew, a grandfather, an uncle, a friend, a Rabbi, and the myriad of titles I have been fortunate to hold.
But many ask, “Rabbi, what is your role today?” That answer is simple. While I retain the titles I have held throughout my life, such as a father, grandfather, and husband, I am a person who counsels, writes, and participates in philanthropy while participating in choir, dance, and music.
I retain every role I have held because someone believed in me. Someone supported me. So much of who and what we are is due to those who helped and supported us. As we prosper through life in the excellent and strenuous times, it is often the hand of a friend, relative, or acquaintance that will champion us to the light.
Please take a moment and think of those people, and then I challenge you to take the next step in sharing gratitude. Those who know me know I enjoy offering challenges, but I will follow my motivation today and recognize the many people who support me.
First and foremost, I remain in unwavering gratitude to my family. Each of my relatives hold a special place in my heart, offering enduring love and care.
Secondly, as I venture through my older years, many aspects of my life are only possible due to the legion of associates who support me. From my caring and wonderful personal aides who make my days possible, to my rabbinical support, which helps propel my personal and spiritual voice, to my accountant for balancing my numbers, to the author who is preserving my historical documents, and to the artistic talents who help me achieve my love and passion for dance and choir music, I thank you. Each of you help me thrive, and I appreciate you all in sincere gratitude.
Also, I would like to express gratitude to my friends near and far. Thank you for the abundance of letters, notes, and moments of connection where banter brought joy and warmth.
Last but never least, I remain in humble appreciation to my fellow clergy and temple staff who have supported me throughout the years in various capacities, from my early days at Temple Beth El to current times.
Remember, one of the most sacred teachings of the Torah is gratitude. For when we rise each day, we must say Modeh Ani. These words are our birthright to thank God and the people who help us thrive.
Rabbi Merle E. Singer | Words with Merle 